We are working to embrace this new normal and with that, all of the additional alone time we are meant to enjoy. Some of you will already appreciate switching up the ways you visit Pleasure Town, while others, this is on the bottom of your priority list or ignored. I encourage you to make this one of your “new activities” during lock down.
A favorite site that combines class, quality and sexy for both men and women is: Lelo.com (see the website below)
Know your Pleasure:
"Between 50 and 75 % of women who have orgasms do so through clitoral stimulation rather than penetration, so beginners should look no further than external vibrators. They have helped millions of women worldwide unlock the sensual enjoyment of the big O – so have a look at what’s out there and see what tickles your fancy. Literally. " (lelo.com)
One pattern my male friend and I both noticed during our conversations on the apps… A lot of people are forgetting they are getting to know someone to potentially meet up and have their next fling or relationship with. But.. none of that is going to happen if you use Bumble as your therapy session. Pre-COVID, this would happen, but not as often. The men I spoke with would complain about their day, work, their ex, their … whatever. All of that is ok to vent about …. But not as your first impression conversation or any getting to know you topics! Noone wants to listen to a Debbie downer. You want to show off your best aspects of your personality. Why are you a great catch? What makes you different in a great way? What makes you laugh? Those are the types of conversations that will leave you with a smile on your face, even of your day really sucked. Save it for your parents or therapy, this is fastest way to get ghosted or feel worse if now you’re confused why the person you felt a vibe with is running the other way.
Like many of you, I have been on and off dating apps for years. I often think my insane dating experiences and those of my friends would make for a really great book, movie or sitcom. I know you all have stories and experiences to share. My goal is to post my own ideas, thoughts and experiences mixed in with special guest entries covering topics I know less about. Please feel free to message me with your own stories, comments, questions that you would not mind sharing with everyone. My contact info is listed in the bottom of the site. Thank you for stopping by!